Hi, Kelly!
I'm so excited to hear that you're going to have a meal at
Monsieur Paul for date night! I had an opportunity to dine there with my husband sans kids, and it was really a great experience. The French cuisine is just delicious and authentic. You will really enjoy the views of the France Pavilion and the rest of World Showcase from the second story windows, it's really a perfect location.
You can absolutely join the Grandparents with your children during their meals at other Table Service restaurants even if you don't order anything. It's important to be sure that when the
Advanced Dining Reservations are made, you make them for the total number of people in the party so they have the right sized table reserved for you. You can simply let your server know that you won't be ordering and it shouldn't be an issue at all. This has actually happened to our family where one person in our party was too full from a Mickey Ice Cream Bar to have lunch. Yes, we had ice cream between breakfast and lunch. When at Disney, you know?
Thanks so much for stopping by with your question, Kelly, and please feel free to write back in if we can help with any other questions you have.
Wishing you and your family a Pixie Dusted vacation!
~Jackie