Hi Stephanie!
I 'm so excited for your 1st trip to WDW! You're going to have so much fun!! Be sure to stop by Guest Relations & pick up "1st Visit" buttons for each of you.
The Wishes Dessert Party is FABULOUS! It starts an hour prior to Wishes at the Tomorrowland Terrace. You are treated to an all you can eat dessert buffet. The desserts are incredible and you'll have a hard time stopping. They also serve coffee, hot tea, hot chocolate, milk, water & fruit punch. You'll have your own table and an AMAZING unobstructed view of the fireworks. Tinker Bell flies right over your head. And you don't have to claim a good spot 2 or 3 hours before the fireworks - its reserved for you so that you can enjoy more attractions before settling in for the fireworks. A PhotoPass Photographer is also on hand if you'd like to have pictures taken with Cinderella Castle in the background. Call 407-WDW-DINE for reservations.
You may also be interested in the Pirates & Pals Fireworks Voyage. I recently answered a question about the details of this - click
here.
I'm not sure how old your kids are but if you have any girls into the Princesses, they may be interested in the
Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. Boys & girls may be interested in
The Pirates League.
I'm running out of room but here is a link for
Tours & Special Experiences. Please feel free to let us know if you need specific details about any of them.
Wishing you & your family many magical memories :-)