Hi Johanna,
From one mama of a Mouseketeer with autism to another, I'd love to share some things with you that have worked for our family so that you and your princess can visit "The Most Magical Place on Earth" and have a BLAST together.
First, I'd encourage you to read through all of the wonderful
services provided for Guests visiting with autism. I can tell you that the
Disability Access Service has made a world of difference for my kiddo, who can easily get overwhelmed. If you're concerned about your daughter's ability to wait in a traditional queue, be sure to have your entire party stop by the
Guest Relations location inside the theme park when you first arrive to chat with the Cast Members there about your concerns. If they feel like it would be helpful, they'll be able to get you set up with the Disability Access Service. I also recommend looking at lots of pictures or watching these fantastic
planning videos beforehand so that she has a better idea about what to expect. Please feel free to pack some favorite items to help her, too. We usually pack headphones, some sensory toys, and favorite snacks, and I bring those things into the parks with me. I'd also encourage you to make sure to take some breaks during your day. Whether it's lingering at a meal a little longer, running around
Tom Sawyer Island at Magic Kingdom Park, or asking the Cast Members at Guest Relations where some quiet spots are around the parks, allowing for some down time can be a real blessing. Finally, be sure to check out this helpful
guide about what to expect at each attraction. If your daughter struggles with darkness, loud noises, elements of surprise, or any other sensory inputs, it will help you know what attractions might be difficult for her.
Thanks so much for bringing us this really important question, Johanna, and please come back and see us again if you have any other questions as you're planning your visit. I hope that you and your daughter have a truly magical vacation together!
Missy