Hi again Nancy! Mahalo for sending me a follow up question; I love to hear back from guests.
If your picky eater can handle bread, chicken, and chocolate mousse, then the Spirit of Aloha Dinner Show will work for your family. Ample platters of food are served family style so your 13 year old can eat what she likes and ignore the rest. Take a look at the offerings at
Spirit of Aloha Dinner Show menu. All the items listed will be brought to your table so you may enjoy all you care to eat. If your child only wants to eat rice, no problem. She will be given as much as she desires.
Luau Cove is an open, but well sheltered, area. Since the coolest evenings in February in central Florida typically only hit the low 50's, temperatures should not be an issue. Toss a jacket or sweater in your suitcase to bring to dinner in case the evening is chilly.
Enjoy the fire dancer!
Elisabeth