Howdy Heidi!!!
The Merry Member Mixers are wonderful and have become a must do event for my family when we are at Walt Disney World during the holidays. Unfortunately, unless something changes, you are going to miss the final event by a few days. The 2013 Merry Member Mixers are scheduled for November 25 and December 2, 9 and 16 from 3-5 PM at the Epcot World Showcase Pavilion.
I have better news for you regarding
Candlelight Processional. The standby line is still available. However, as a reminder per the Walt Disney World website, "This spectacle is held on select nights and, due to its popularity, often fills up quickly. Unless you have purchased a Candlelight Dinner Package, attendance is on a first-come, first-served basis. All entertainment and celebrity narrators are subject to change."
If you are able to make a Candlelight Processional Dinner Package reservation, that would be great but I know your plans are a bit different this year than they have been in the past due to your resort.
I love Walt Disney World in December and I am so excited for you!! What a magical way to celebrate Christmas!!
Thanks so much for your question and please let me know if you need any further information as you plan your vacation. Have a magical day!