Hi Linda,
Thank you so much for visiting the Disney Parks Moms Panel with your question. Your trip is coming up so soon; you must be getting excited! While I can give you some recommendations for your traveling party based on ages and the makeup of the party, I also recommend that you have everyone watch the
Walt Disney World travel planning video online. This way, everyone can get a taste of what is available and can make some choices about attractions and experiences that they would like to take part in while on vacation.
Given the ages of your children, I would suggest
Disney's Hollywood Studios as a good theme park to visit for one of your days. This park features thrilling attractions such as Rock 'n' Roller Coaster starring Aerosmith and The Twilight Zone Tower of Terror. This theme park is also the place to be if your boys are interested in Star Wars. From
Star Tours - The Adventure Continues, on which you can take a simulated space flight through the worlds of Star Wars, to
Star Wars Launch Bay, a wonderful place to explore all things Star Wars, Disney's Hollywood Studios is the place to be to explore the galaxy far, far away!
As for other theme parks to visit, there is something for everyone at all of the Walt Disney World theme parks. By viewing the video that I linked earlier in this answer, you can get a feel for which of the other theme parks seems most appealing to your family.
I would love to help you plan more Linda; however, I am limited in the amount of space that I have to answer. Please do write back if you have any further questions!