Hi, Diana!
Here are some activities that your princess might enjoy during your visit to Walt Disney World:
-Meet and Greet with
Rapunzel in Magic Kingdom at the Fairytale Garden
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Voyage of the Little Mermaid show in Hollywood Studios
-Chef Mickey's (character dining at Contemporary Resort,
Advance Dining Reservations needed)
-Minnie Mouse Meet and Greet - check your Times Guide at Magic Kingdom to see when you can meet Mickey's best gal!
-Beauty and the Beast Live on Stage in Hollywood Studios
-Princess Meet and Greet area in Town Square Theatre in Magic Kingdom
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Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique for a lovely princess make-over. Reservations can be made by calling (407)WDW-STYLE.
I would probably pass on the large investment of a VIP Tour Guide. You will get more out of a guide when your daughter is older and you want to enjoy more attractions and go full speed all day long.
Wishing you a magical visit to Walt Disney World!