Hi Diana,
Congratulations on your upcoming tenth wedding anniversary! I can't imagine a more magical place to celebrate than Walt Disney World.
If you are looking to have a nice meal with your husband and young children, then you might want to consider the Grand Floridian Cafe on the first floor of Disney's Grand Floridian Resort. It is elegant but not stuffy. Children are welcome guests at this restaurant but the dining experience is not centered around them. There are no characters, just a gorgeous Victorian restaurant with an extensive, accessible menu.
'Ohana, on the second floor of Disney's Polynesian Resort, is another lovely option. The views of the Seven Seas Lagoon and Cinderella Castle from the window seats at this restaurant are enchanting. You could then follow dinner by watching the Wishes fireworks and Electrical Water Pageant from the beach behind this resort. It is my favorite place to watch fireworks in all of Walt Disney World. So romantic!
Or, if you'd like to go to a more exclusive, adult-centered restaurant, call
Kids Nite Out. These professional in-room babysitters could watch your children while you have a lovely dinner for two anywhere you like. You can make arrangements for this child care service by calling 1-800-696-8105 up to three months in advance.
Wishing you a magical anniversary celebration!
Jill