Hi Selha,
I hope that the Disney Parks Moms Panel can help to relieve some of your stress. We are here to help with your vacation planning, and I want to start by letting you know that we are here for your questions.
I checked with Make-A-Wish, who let me know that you will have a Wish Coordinator for your trip. You can find who this is by visiting wish.org. From the drop-down menu for "Local Chapters," you can enter your zip code. This will bring up your local chapter and contact information for them. By calling them, you can find out who your Wish Coordinator is for your trip, and they can help you to plan.
I would also suggest that you order the
Walt Disney World vacation planning DVD. On this DVD, you will find information about all that there is to do at Walt Disney World. If you watch this with your children, you can start to get an idea about what is really interesting to them. I would suggest by deciding which Disney theme parks you would like to visit, and from there you can start to think about which attractions you would like to experience. There are also websites for
Magic Kingdom Park,
Epcot,
Disney's Hollywood Studios, and
Disney's Animal Kingdom Theme Park. By visiting each, you can get a list of attractions and entertainment to explore further.
I hope that this gives you a good place to start your planning, Selha. We on the Disney Parks Moms Panel are here to help you plan a magical vacation. Please do come back with any further questions.