Hi Kelly!
Your daughter is at such a great age to enjoy the magic and wonder of Walt Disney World!
Like you, I am dying to know when the fabulous new Be Our Guest restaurant will be opening. Unfortunately, all we know right now is that it's planned to be a 'fall 2012' opening. I highly recommend that you visit the
Disney Parks Blog often to find out all the latest, exciting news about openings in the new Fantasyland expansion. Visit the above link to view a great video about the design and construction of this amazing new dining experience!
Given your daughter's young age, Crystal Palace for breakfast in Magic Kingdom with Winnie the Pooh and Friends would definitely be an excellent choice for her to enjoy.
When my own Princess was younger, a few other favourites of hers included
Akershus Royal Banquet Hall for Princess Storybook Dining in Epcot, as well as
Hollywood & Vine's Disney Junior Play 'n Dine at Hollywood Studios. I'd definitely highly recommend either of these, both for a breakfast meal time as first choice.
Be sure to pick up a 'Birthday Button' for your daughter to wear throughout her Birthday Vacation and she just may receive special treatment around the parks.
Please feel free to visit me again if I can assist you in your plans any further or just to check in and see if we've heard any updates on the opening of Be Our Guest!
Wishing you a simply Magical time at Walt Disney World Kelly!
Kirsten