Happy 20th Anniversary, Judy! We're married 20 years this year as well, and would have
loved the chance to celebrate it at Walt Disney World!
Tony's Town Square Restaurant in Magic Kingdom Park is a favorite of ours, too. You can arrange for a
custom specialty cake to be delivered to your table by calling (407) 827-2253, the specialty cake hotline. There, you'll be prompted to select #4 for the Magic Kingdom Cake Hotline, where you'll get a listing of information to send to magickingdomcakes@disney.com. (Have your pencil ready; I had to listen to this extensive list twice to be sure that I didn't miss anything. That list is included below.)
Secure your reservation at the restaurant first, then email (at the above address) your first and last name, restaurant reservation #, date and time of reservation, name of restaurant, your phone number and email address. Once this is completed, you'll be emailed information including cake options, pricing and photos of the cakes available. This information must be sent at least 72 hours prior to your reservation.
You can also order a "Celebrate Today Cake," (currently$21) in either chocolate or vanilla, by telling a Cast Member at Check-In that you'd like this option. I called Disney Dining to ask if this could be done over the phone, via (407) WDW-DINE (to keep the surprise!) and was told "certainly!" Moreover, should you want to put a little topper on the cake, see if you can slip it to a Cast Member upon your arrival (ladies always need to use the rest room, correct?) The folks at Tony's will be happy to place that topper onto your cake too.
May your upcoming anniversary be as magical as the day you said "I do!" Wishing you a "bella notte" on that very special evening!
Feel free to send more questions as you think of them! I'd love to help!