Hi Jane, You and I share something in common--I have a Princess loving 5 year old too!
If you can get the reservation, I would definitely go with Cinderella's Royal Table. It is absolutely magical. From the first moment when they call your family's name, to when she waits in line for her chance to see Cinderella...to walking up the winding staircase to the dining room, and meeting even more royalty while dining. The castle itself is gorgeous, complete with stained glass windows and tapestries. It's not everyday you get the chance to dine inside a Castle, so I would take the opportunity if you can.
I'm not sure when your vacation is, but if it's more than 180-days out, this post will help you in your quest to secure the highly sought out Cinderella's Royal Table reservations:
SEE HERE .
On a side note, have you discovered Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique yet? My littlest girls are huge fans, and it is a Princess lovers dream-come-true. Click
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Enjoy your Magical vacation with your little Princess.
Kaylene