Hi Melissa!
Disney Dining Plans are a great addition to your Magic Your Way Package, including a stay at a Walt Disney World Resort Hotel!
The type of plan that will suit your family best, will depend on what type of dining you hope to enjoy during your stay, and how much advance planning you're comfortable with, in order to receive the best value from your Disney Dining Plan.
If you're planning to enjoy a Character Meal or other Table Service Dining at least once a day during your visit, then the Disney Dining Plan is your best bet. The plan includes a Resort-Refillable Mug per person for the duration of your stay as well as 1 Table Service Meal, 1 Quick Service (Counter Service) Meal and 1 Snack, per person, per night of stay.
If you'd rather 'eat on the fly' while enjoying the parks, then the Quick Service Dining Plan will be all you need - and perfect for your young family.
If you'd like to enjoy lots of Character Dining as well as the flexibility to have credits available for Dinner Shows and other Table Service Dining at least twice daily, with plenty of reservations and planning done in advance of your trip to make it as magical as possible, then the Deluxe Dining Plan is what you'll want.
Visit the links to each plan
(using the link above, you'll find PDF brochure links on the right hand side of the page on the Walt Disney World website) to read all about what's included. If you still have questions before making your decision, feel free to head on back to visit me again Melissa! I'd love to hear from you again!
Wishing you a simply Magical time at Walt Disney World!
Kirsten