Hi Taralee!
Tinker Bell is usually one of the many costuming options available at the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique's locations. Choosing the Fairytale Princess hairstyle would likely most closely resemble Tink's cute, top-knot hairstyle, although there are many other styles your daughter can choose from on site.
To ensure that she's able to dress up in Tink's style, I'd recommend that you consider shopping for her Tinker Bell ensemble prior to your appointment, bringing the costume along with you for her to change into. You'll find great costuming options at the Emporium on Main Street U.S.A.
Tink doesn't currently attend any Character Dining Experiences. For the best chance to meet Tinker Bell and her Fairy friends from Pixie Hollow, consult the daily Times Guide at Magic Kingdom Park to find out where and when they'll be appearing.
I do have a favourite experience at which Wendy usually appears. It's called the
Pirates and Pals Fireworks Voyage and it's one of my family's favourite things to do at Walt Disney World! The experience begins with a reception and character Meet & Greet with Captain Hook and Mr. Smee prior to your voyage out to the Seven Seas Lagoon for a viewing of Wishes like you've never experiences before and a few extra surprises. At the end of the voyage, Peter Pan and Wendy usually meet your boat at the dock for a photo and autograph opportunity. It's great fun for all ages. I so highly recommend it! Call 407-WDW-PLAY to reserve your voyage today!
Thanks for visiting the Moms Panel with your great questions Taralee!
If you have further questions about your trip, I hope you'll write me back again soon!
Wishing you a simply Magical time on your Walt Disney World vacation!
Kirsten