Welcome to planDisney Kathleen!
I'm sorry you are having trouble getting your Family and Friends feature to work on
My Disney Experience. A few tricks that sometimes work.... Log out and log back in. Sometimes a simple reset helps. After doing this, have the request sent again to try to accept the invitation.
Another thing to try will be using a different web browser. I'm not a tech person and have no idea why, but this sometimes works for me!
When all else fails,
call the experts! Give a ring to Website Support at (407)939-4357. Have your email address handy and be at your computer when you call so they can you fixed in a jiffy.
Once you get your lists all in order, have some fun by booking your
Dining Reservations or selecting your Disney Resort hotel for your stay. You might want to check out what's planned at the
EPCOT International Flower & Garden Festival. Nothing says SPRINGTIME like flowers and topiaries!
Good luck. I hope you get your issue fixed so you can continue planning your magical visit to Walt Disney World!
Cathy